Make fun of others but upto certain limit



Make fun of others but the line should be drawn to what extent we should make fun of anybody.
In our daily life, we make lot of fun of others. Till some extent, It is good. We make fun of our friends just to pull their leg. That is fine. 

Because life is not meant to be raise brows everytime. Keep yourself at their place, to understand how it feels and where the line needs to be drawn.But as You know excess of everything is bad..So making fun sometimes can be the reason of someone's destroyed life..

 Let me give you example of one of my friends.. 4 to 5 years back He got an opportunity to travel in Rajdhani.. Before that He had never get a chance to board Rajdhani. He was a bit excited.. But every excitement and enthusiasm was vanished soon due to one incident.. My friend saw German Shepherd Dog roaming in each boggy.. He was confused.. He didnt make out that the dog is a sniffer..He asked the one with whom He was traveling about the same.. That another guy also had no knowledge as He was also a first timer to board Rajdhani. But He told that May be "Kisi ka pet ho..isliye yaha apne malik ko chhodne aaya hoga kisi family member ke sath.." there were one boy and one girl sitting in front of them. After listening to their conversation, they laughed and give them a disgusting look as if they were inferior persons. My friend just ignored that. But during the whole journey, they indirectly made fun of them. They used to see my friend and whisper something to each other and laughs. It jolted my friend completely as He is a sensitive guy. He shared this incident with me. The incident haunted him for many days. He was like fish out of water.

See, there is a time when every person does something new for the first time. That time he doesn’t have knowledge. So that doesn’t mean to make him the subject of mockery. Many a times we see in our daily life that people used to make fun of others without thinking about the consequence of the same. We have seen sometimes in our life that one person is in mall and not taking the escalator because he/ she is from a small town or village and have never used escalator. You will see that every person there will see them and laugh at them and can call him “Dehati” or “Illiterate”. Do you know what will be the consequences of the same? It will make that person to think that he is of inferior quality. May be such incident will make him to stay away from every new guy. May be he will start hating them. May be he will never use the escalator in his life because he doesn’t want to be the subject of mockery.

 In our daily life, we used to make fun of others. Those who don’t know how to speak in English or speaks in “tuta futa language”, they are laughed at by us. We always make fun of their accent and English. But the effect of such comments will be that in future he will not try to speak in English. He will be completely broken. So what happened? Did You see? His progress will be hampered by us. May be we will never feel that we were the reasons why he didn’t learn English.

Also We used to make fun of our friends who are weak in studies . We say them”tumse na ho payega”. Instead of boosting them, We laugh at them. Also, there are times when we are in college and some village guys also take admission. We make fun of them for their look , their language. It just make those guys depressed. And they take the sentence for granted. They start thinking that “unse na ho payega”, they are really good for nothing. You must have heard the quote of Vivekanad” What we think, We become.” And that happenes with such guys. They become more and more depressed. They will start skipping to take new initiative. That will destroy their life completely.

 So, It’s my request to all that if any of you has done such thing in your life, then It’s okay but take an oath to not to do such thing in future. If one person doesn’t know something , don’t laugh at them. If one person is feared for stepping in escalator, Don’t call them “ Dehati or something like that.” Instead of that, Give them a helping hand. Boost their confidence. If one is weak in English then help him/her in improving his language and accent. Tell them how to speak. If one doesn’t know something , help him in knowing that particular thing. If one is from rural background,then help him in improving his personality.
Life is not about living in own comfort zone. It is about loving everybody, nurturing ourselves and others and helping every one. Because “Life to sab apne liye hi jeete hai, but sacha insan to wo hai jo dusro ke liye jita hai”

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