The Secret Key to be happy


Why there is so much sorrow around us? Why does almost everyone seem sad? There are lot of reasons behind this..

Some reasons are not in our control.. so it's useless to brood over them.. but there are some factors which are making us sad since childhood.. If we can eradicate them then Life can be a beautiful gift.. A Life with joy and Hapiness..

 And That secret key to live in hapiness and mirth is to live in present.. sounds peculiar? You are thinking that am I insane?.. You may be thinking that We live in present only.. We can't live in past or future.. How am I saying to live in present when we already live in present..Let me clear it..

 Everyone must have remembered his childhood.. When we were child, we used to think "Kas! Hum bhi bade hote".. When we didn't get permission to go anywhere whereas our elder brother or sister used to get the permission then the desire to grow up start increasing by leaps and bound.. In childhood we wanted to do the work what our elder brother or sister used to do.. like we wanted to help in decorating our home specially in Puja.. When everyone used to say "No.. tum abhi bache ho.."that moment must have infuriated many of us.. We just used to think ,we have to grow up.. "bada ho kar bahut maja aayega..masti karenge" and all..

 Gradually We come in the age of adolescent.. lot of school's assignment, tuition, domestic work start burdening us.. sometimes we used to have lot of fun,party.. but on the other, we feel pressurized by exams,assignments and all.. again we start thinking that when all our studies will be completed and we will start doing a job with handsome salary and perks.. that will be the finest day of our life..and we start waiting for that moment..

 After toiling hard, we get a good job.. In initial stage we feel satisfied.. We feel very happy..but soon such hapiness start vanishing.. Lot of Work Pressure, Hectic time schedule, targets start hampering our personal life.. We don't get time for our family and friends.. We become like machines.. Same schedule from morning to evening.. We become irritated and sad..

We start fretting over past.. we start thinking "Bachpan hi acha tha..No work..no tension.. only masti".. But suddenly we realise we can't do anything for past.. and then instead of living in present,we again start wondering about future.. about our retirement..

We start thinking that When we will retire at the age of 60 or so, then We will be like free birds.. No work pressure,no tension and Awesome life to live..

 But when we go on the wrong side of 60 then we become weak.. Our energy go down the drain.. That time We don't have the capacity and capability to have fun.. and that is the time when we realise that What I have done with my life.. Instead of living and enjoying our life,We used to brood over either past or future.. And In the game of past and future, we forgot to live in present and to live our life .. But It's useless to cry over spilit milk ... You can just regret and nothing else..

 So guys.. Start living in present.. Start enjoying our present instead of fretting over our past or future... This is the time.. enjoy every moment as if it were last a few moments..

If there is a hurdle and obstacle in life then don't try to escape them
. Face them with a smile.. that will make your life more and more smooth ..

 When you start enjoying the moment then your sorrow will be vanished by and by.. The music and rhythm of Life start embracing you..You will feel the change.. and That time in real sense you will become part of your life.. 

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